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No money for Scarborough Faire... kind of upset, I won't lie. The money thing can't be helped. *shrug* Even if I got some in, Will's still struggling this month, and I'd probably put it all to bills.
Heh - couple of years ago I wanted this birthday to be a big one. Turning 28 on the 28th. As it is I'll probably just stay home and play Sims or Star Wars all weekend.
Bonus: I feel like an ass for being upset. That's silly, right? And it's okay to be disappointed? I don't want it to feel like I'm putting blame or anything, or upset with Will for being short on cash for the month. I'm not. It's more disappointment and upset with the situation and not with anything really being the "cause". Bleh.
Heh - couple of years ago I wanted this birthday to be a big one. Turning 28 on the 28th. As it is I'll probably just stay home and play Sims or Star Wars all weekend.
Bonus: I feel like an ass for being upset. That's silly, right? And it's okay to be disappointed? I don't want it to feel like I'm putting blame or anything, or upset with Will for being short on cash for the month. I'm not. It's more disappointment and upset with the situation and not with anything really being the "cause". Bleh.
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I think that's one of those fine lines between childhood and adulthood. When you're a kid there's always someone to blame (or we think there is). But when you become an adult you realize a lot of things are not someone's fault. When I bitch and complain about X, I often get a "It's not my fault. What do you want me to do about it?" rebuttal. I've learned to specifically point out - I'm not upset or angry at you. I'm upset about the situation. Sometimes situations just fucking suck, not matter how many wonderful well meaning people and deeds you surround yourself with.
It's a very important distinction to make to others and to oneself.
*hug*