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Sometimes I look at apartments and houses in places I have no interest in ever living in. It's kind of interesting and fun to do... because I click through with a lack of personal interest but wonder what kind of person I'd be if I DID want to. What type of ME would desire to live in the busiest parts of NYC? What about Chicago, or LA? What about some small coastal town in Maine? Places that all have their appeal, just not for me. Would I thrive there if I were forced to live there for some reason? What would I do there? IDK, it's kind of fun to think about "different me" versions. I'm absolutely happy where I am with no interest to stray or anything. I just wonder what version of me would want to, if that makes sense. :)

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I am a weirdo according to some because I think “soulmates” as an idea can be VERY real. But I don’t think there’s “one soulmate” for people. I think there are SEVERAL. Dozens, possibly hundreds we’ll never meet. And I also think soulmates don’t have to be romantic at all. That friend you instantly connect with on just about every important level can be just as much of a soulmate (and as important) as some on you also connect romantically and sexually with. It’s not required… frequently it’s weird to feel that way about a soulmate. Romantic soulmates are totally a thing, but not the ONLY thing, and there’s more than one romantic soulmate too (and varying kids… I might connect with one person for life-long long, some only with a month-long passionate fling that means the world to both of us). Which I love. Think of all the possible forms of love with so SO many people on this planet. You might meet only one in your lifetime, you might meet a hundred… you might be in a place in your life to explore it, or not, and it’s perfectly okay… but having so many people to connect gives you so many chances.

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in before my atheist friends mock and belittle me for this ;)